I have merged all your threads together as it is best to stick to one thread until 100 posts and then start a new one.

Originally Posted By: MLH
I told her I could not be her best friend if she was leaving me. Is that wrong?

No if she is leaving you she is not your best friend.
She is you wife until you are legally divorced.
That might mean some tough love is involved.

If she has PPD - then TIME is on your side as it is likely to get better after a while.
Stop EXPECTING a DIVORCE,
if you don't want a divorce then make her do it.
That means to STFU and let go, detach, give her space.

DO NOT MOVE OUT of either the house or the MBR.
You can't stop her from doing it but your live there.

Now is the time to work on YOU.

Me-70, D37,S36