I should have mentioned that they are just small family parties. The FIL's party is just he and his wife, my W and kids, and the SIL's and fams.
The MIL's party is about the same size, but with a step-BIL and family.
I love them all, but I want her also to know that things are different and will be if she continues down the D path.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!