More LBS perspective. It is not what you did that defines you. It is how you respond to and grow from your mistakes. At least you are showing remorse. This is an important first step. That said, you need to lower your expectations. it will take much longer than a week or two for your H to heal from the emotional damage you inflicted on him. As has been said before, you need to give your H a LOT of time and space. If you truly want to save your M (only you know what you are willing to sacrifice for your M), be as transparent as humanly possible and patient with him. Try as you might to empathize, you cannot possibly imagine the magnitude of the emotional pain you have caused him.
My WW never showed remorse and never cared much for helping me heal. You may be different, I suggest the following book: How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful If you are truly serious about repairing your M and doing the work, then you will find this book helpful.
Good luck, and never do that to another human again.
