Irish, thanks for posting on my thread. I’ve been keeping up with yours, even though I don’t post much. I’m glad your daughter has her symptoms under control until she can get the proper treatment. I hope that this will be taken care of and she will have a normal and happy life and will be able to do what she loves. I’m sure you will do whatever it takes to achieve that. She is very fortunate to have a Dad like you, Irish.
As for your XW… I kind of feel sorry for her… She is trying to pull all kinds of excuses and justifications for her behavior, and especially not being there for the girls… But… it will eventually come to a realization… that there is nobody else who she can make responsible for what she’d done. I think she knows that, and this is why she tries to justify her behavior over and over again. This must be exhausting… I find it interesting that whatever she hears on the radio or gets from some different sources about the marriage and divorce, she runs it by you. I think she is going through a painful process of discovering herself, or whatever it is… I’m glad your daughters have you! You are the rock!
I can’t wait for the good news about your D14, Irish! I hope you have great holidays!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state