Im really not controlling. I have always let her do what she wanted. Then came the affair. I have trust issues as I am sure we all do. I guess I am a failure at standing. I just cant stomach the thought of her at bar talking to every man in sight.
I know she does this because I have been with her when she does. She claims shejust likes to meet people but I am not really buying that. One of our "problems" is she feels that I dont make enough money to make her feel secure. I make a decent living(120-135k). Her bar of choice is where the "elite" people in this town hang out.
I have read almost every page of this forum back to 2007. Im just not good at applying what I learn
