I'm sorry, but you do come across as controlling to me. Why do you think she wants to find a rich man?
Maybe she just wants to let her hair down and have some fun? I can understand you being the type to put your foot down. My dad was exactly the same with my mum.
He died 30 years ago......she never wanted to be with another man again. She's now 85.
Do you think it's really a good idea to speak to her tonight?
I read somewhere on here that was really thought provoking.......'do you want to be right, or be happy'.
