CaliGuy...yes I am kind of the poster child for the Mr. Nice Guy thing...I know that those are the things that I need to 180 from, but it is difficult changing your entire makeup/belief system in such a short period of time. Not trying to read her feelings, but I believe that at first we were equally balanced and over time we morphed into the giver/taker relationship which was enhanced by the Mr. Nice Guy thing that I learned from my dad. Hence the fact that I feel that over 20+ years she has lost respect for me.
That being said, I need to work on me to earn my own self-respect back. She may notice, but it may be too late...I can only worry about the future now and not focus on the past.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
