Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 7

[Sotto]

Sara, I'm sorry all that was said. But I still think you are climbing onto his rollercoaster ride. You had some positive interactions last weekend and he said some nice things.

Then, you get into a R talk, which was never going to go well. And he said all the kinds of horrible things that (cornered) WAS say and things took a nose dive.

Rather than react with filing for D, why don't you take some steps to remove yourself from (his) drama - emotionally, physically or both.

You don't sound to be in a good place to be making a decision about D, but do take steps towards further distance and detachment. Truly, these convos are not doing any good at all.

Also, I do want to say - if he wants a D and wants out of the R - that's up to him. But he can put in all the effort towards that if so. I wonder if he says some of these things to goad you into doing the job he doesn't really want to do?

Truly - he will do what he will do, but you don't have to be on the bumpy ride with him.

Xx