Wise words, Gump.

NMC needs to make a list to talk into the consultation. A list of all things that she needs answers to. When I consulted mine, one of the first things my lawyer asked was "What do you want?" Meaning, what path did I want to take in the divorce? That needs to be figured out first. Mine was more complex due to children. Also, she needs to have all of her ducks in a row. I went in will all the affair information printed out, texts from the ex, financial, everything. Saves time and money. I recommend against "doing it yourself," which may be fine after the consultation - but no way in hell should it any sort of proceedings be done otherwise. I say this because even the "friendliest" of spouses take the gloves off and get nasty. Take mine for example, her and her sister staged pictures of the house to make it look almost unlivable so as to better her chances with the kids.

Forearmed is forewarned.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.