Originally Posted By: bsb
When you figure out when to move forward with divorce let me know! I'm trying to decide that for myself. We can only take so much before our hearts change!!

Stay strong


Thanks, bsb. I am trying to keep posting here regularly. It's been helping me sort through my feelings and work on things.

It really is hard to know. I feel like it's so easy to tell a stranger to walk away, but when it comes to yourself, you're plagued with what-ifs.

But how many more days of him making no contact after I keep putting myself out there can I take? I'm not desperate and certainly don't want to give off those vibes.

I will just stop making contact myself and start looking into lawyers..