I would not beat yourself up over it SBJ. I did a lot of that stuff early in the sitch and with the Holidays its tougher to maintain in your own sandbox ... I admit I have found myself lately feeling a bit more soft but know not to poke the hamster at this point.
The danger with delivering her soup is expecting something in return ... so just mind yourself of keeping zero expectations and seeing this as pursuit which I think you do ... hang in there.
