I'm seriously thinking of filing myself. It just goes against everything I stand for and I know she will turn that against me to people and say see he did this.
There is really nothing she can turn against you. That's kind of like when a cheater gets angry because they were exposed. That decision, though, is totally up to you. I filed because of circumstances sort of forced me to.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
