I said this to him. He didn't apologize, but agreed with me in a roundabout way. He keeps score. He replies with that he knows what it feels like because I've done it to him- which is true- a long time ago and it's something we talked about in therapy. And yet here it is being thrown in my face again. It's difficult getting apologies out of him.
Keeping score and throwing it back in your face is not indicative of someone who has issues. Something just occurred to me - he seems a bit like those in my ex's family...does he have sociopathic/narcissistic tendencies?
I believe something somewhere on here that you shouldn't expect an apology. Hell, my ex never apologized. Learn to forgive people even when they don't apologize for things they have done. You are on a good path, my friend. Keep your head up.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
