You didn't fumble. We're all going through excruciatingly painful stuff, and nobody can be perfect. We're all human. Don't focus on the particulars -- look at the big picture. The big picture is you've done so much. If your WH gave it 1/10 of the heart you've put into this, you would not be here.

Originally Posted By: PsySara
He even said I could have the kids and he would just...leave.

How the F could he say that. They are not furniture. They are his children.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final