You are right, KML. I see his efforts now that they are spelled out for me.

I just need a break. I want a few days off w/out him. Yes, it's effort on his part but it's also a WHOLE lotta crazy. I recognize that I am burned out. Logically, it makes sense to reward the good behavior. But it's hard to compartmentalize it given crazy is waiting.

KML - I am curious; did your h live at home during his MLC? Or did he cut and run?

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced