HaWho, I agree with roist. It's not this h that you'd want back. Every time I'm about to give up I remind myself of it. For me, it's the second time he is in MLC crazy and though the first time it was much lighter than now, it was unbelievable how different he was once we started to work on marriage again. & how ashamed he was of things he said before. & a lot of what he said he didn't even remember...
It's much more difficult for you when you have a live in MLCer. I hope you'll be able to get some time w/o him during holidays & recharge your batteries. You're a saint to be able to go through all this on daily basis & with such grace!
I'm curious to know what is the best present for lucky lady... can't be another landline...
