We went out on Thursday night. She was the belle of the bar. Talking to any and everyone who would listen. Mostly older guys. She didnt speak to me alot even though we were sitting together. Night ended in an argument as they usually do.
went out for family shopping on Saturday. She lost her temper a few times over silly things. We got home and at 11 pm she decided she was gonna hit the bar. I decided she wasnt. I shamed her into not going which of course made her angry. Communication has been sparse. I havent been texting her except about the kids.
She spoke to my Mom for the first time today in over a month. My Mom told her she missed her and said she had found a marriage retreat that she wanted to send us on. Told my wife to think it over and she would call her tomorrow. Im pretty sure she is going to say no but worth a shot.
She is still saying she will file or do something in January, at least she dd on Saturday when I stopped her from going out. Only time will tell and I am not mentioning it.
I did make a mistake and tell her that if she was planning on leaving in January not to buy me anything for Christmas. She went out yesterday with my oldest D and was looking for things to buy me. Guess she doesnt want to look like an uncaring ass at Christmas.
Im sure I have broken a number of rules over the last few days. I did write her a letter but I never gave it to her and I am trying to detatch as much as possible.
