Be very careful with how, when and what you and your wife tell the children. Michele has written an article about this very topic. Please email me directly and I'll send you the link at no charge.
It sounds like you are doing a great job of making yourself and your precious kids your #1 priority. Keep it up! Establishing boundaries around the holidays is good too.
There are unintended consequences of exposing the affair to OM's wife and others. It could force your WW to go further underground. It could be more difficult to reconcile after she comes out of her fog and is embarrassed by her actions. Did you say that the OM is your son's coach? Would it be possible to move your son to another team?
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
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