What exactly would be the point? ... It's the WAYWARDNESS that needs to change, not the presence of an OM.
I agree that waywardness or whatever you want to call it is the problem and talking to the OM will hardly change that.
But waking her up for a moment from her delusion, I think, is good. She is having a psychotic moment: she has a break from reality. Wake her up. Enough of these, and she might realize she needs help. Not today, not tomorrow but years from now.
And besides, aren't you fn pissed? Are you just going to sit around and wring your hands while your W spends time and money on this guy? I don't encourage or condone violence but I like that Jeep stood up for himself and told the OM to F off.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final