FightOn - My own W became very open about where she was at one point - except when she wasn't. I have no idea why she suddenly decided to do that but she certainly was still seeing OM.
It's the "believe none of what they say and half what they do" thing. Even when what they say happens to be the truth.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells