Is it wise to contact the OM in a situation like mine
That depends. Are you going to tell him to stop or kindly ask him in a meek way? And if you tell him, what is the "or else" option?
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Is this a bad idea?
It can be. You need to be prepared for what his response is. You will either be forced to back up your fail safe option or be sent off with your tail tucked.
I talked to my ex's OM. Told him that if I ever saw him near my family I'd break his legs. And I meant it.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.