I don't know if it's strategic, but I would do it just out of my sense of dignity for myself and for my wife. She is deluded about their relationship, so the more she goes on with it, the more she damages herself and her dignity. Do it just to end this pitiful delusion.

I wouldn't particularly have respect for the guy. If he had any principle, any maturity, any wisdom, he'd tell your wife, Thank you for your attention, I appreciate you as a fan but nothing else, you are married, go be with your husband and children.

Stand tall and be proud of who you are, Lex. Let your strength show to your kids.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final