XW and I filled out a marriage questionnaire in pre-marital counseling, and it asked about handling divorce, and she crossed out the question and put, "I will NEVER allow a divorce".
As did mine. And one of this biggest things of hers was that she didn't condone cheating (at the time a mutual friend of ours found out his wife was cheating)...and guess what? You got it. Not only did mine cheat, but I also found evidence of her involvement with married men well before we got together...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
