That's me in the spotlight

[Altair]

Hi Coly,
It's interesting you had the same weekend. I think there's a 'logic clock' going off in people's heads bringing us to receive ultimatum advice, related to our timelines. Which makes me assume people are doing it to the H's as well. In my case that would mean H must be feeling extreme pressure right now. All the more reason to leave him alone. This week, yeah I can be done on Thursday. Tuesday drinks with co-worker and she's bringing a guy I've not met (for me? for her? neither?) Hair appointments and then a Christmas Eve party. IC too.
She's another one, I feel like she is gently shifting me to D. I know this is in DB, is a known phenomenon, but I still find it strange. Maybe she's seen this happen 1,000 times with the same outcome? I sometimes think she knows something or sees something I don't. Well, at some point I will ask her this. Just not now. Getting through this week is still where I am at in my head.

Also I am getting the cat today for the week. Well I was supposed to have the cat now, but I took a friend over to see him and she 'borrowed him' because she's like me - loves cats, can't have one.
I have the key to her house, she leaves for the East Coast today. As cats do, she said he stays under the bed a lot. I hope when I go over there I'll be able to put him in the carrier. Any advice appreciated. He's very sweet, but he is a cat, a hider.
How about you, Coly?