A cake-eater wants to keep the LBS on the back burner in case things don't work out with the new OM, or new life. Filing the D may wake them up to the reality that the LBS isn't going to be available for a backup plan. Does this sound like your situation?
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5