Help - boundaries. Am I doing th ewrong thing?

[Woke_Up]

Update. She is continuing abuse by text, blaming me for her feeling ill/lack of sleep. Asked me to tell son why she is in a bad mood, so I asked if I should tell him the whole truth (meaning continuing EA). She said I should tell him I am a rapist, that I like to rape people when their relatives die, and continued to call me a rapist several times in text messages.

I asked her to stop with the baseless accusations and that what she was doing was abusive.

I did manage to say in the middle of it that I wanted to talk about it in a calm manner, understand the problems she has with me moving back in and resolve it before Christmas. No response to that.

I'm learning lessons the hard way about how volatile a wayward is.

I'm going to need to make time to see a L this week.