Had a busy weekend. The catch is that most of it was spent with my W. Friday night we were out until midnight finishing up our Christmas shopping. Saturday S10 had a basketball game and after that the boys went to play at a friends house. I went to W house and we wrapped presents for 3 hours. W went out with a friend Saturday night. We woke up Sunday morning and got in the hot tub for a couple hours then went to her parents house for Christmas dinner.

The weekend was fine except for the fact that it felt so normal. The problem is it's anything but normal. W is moving out in 1 week. I am still struggling with how to handle myself once she leaves. Do I totally pull back and move on and see if she misses me or do I continue with our friendly type of interactions we are having now. If we remain the way it is now do I risk being put in the friend zone for good? Is it best to just go on with my life and if she comes to me deal with it then? I know what feels right but that isn't always the best course of action. I am convinced there is no OM and if there is then she is very good at hiding it. I do think she is curious what it is like to be on her own like maybe she missed something being married so young. If any vets could weigh in on how they think I should proceed please do so.


Me:42 W:37
M:18 T:23
3S: 4,7,10
EA 6/16
ILYBNILWY 7/16
9/16 separate BR
10/16 Discernment Counseling
She's moving out 1/17