Ok guys I need some advice. The W came by to discuss bills and Christmas arrangements this morning. Very cordial visit. I helped her carry some things out to her car and she says..."Thank you for being so nice and making things so easy and friendly around the kids." I was kind of floored. I have always been nice and friendly. I have never been one to raise my voice.
I have often thought that I too would want to divorce the person my husband claims me to be. Over the many months since BD I've often wondered if he even knows me at all. What I've come to understand is that they create this image of who they need us to be to justify their leaving. Often that image has little or nothing to do with reality, hence the believe nothing of what they say part.
Good job not acting out on trying to take care of her. I know how hard that is, believe me.
Hang in there. Glad you had a nice weekend with your children. Sending {{{hugs}}}
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
