Help - boundaries. Am I doing th ewrong thing?

[Vanilla]

She is really using every weapon to guilt you.

Please record her saying that she will accuse you of rape. This is very important indeed. Do not under estimate the importance of it.

Listen to V very carefully indeed, download a recorder app and do not under any circumstances let her know you have this. E-mail to yourself elsewhere and your L.

Also advise your L of this conversation immediately and you may wish to have this documented officially somewhere as well as here.

This is out of order completely. I suggest you blow it wide open in a conversation with a third party if you can.

I can not emphasise the seriousness of this.

Do not drink anywhere near her at all.

Keep posting

V