Either way - there is a limit to how long I will do this for...I won't be sitting here for years as she comes and goes. I will drop the axe on the situation once I feel I have done all I can. I don't know how long that will be. I will give her enough time to decide when she will leave and then I will discuss my thoughts and let her know that I won't be part of her moving out. Then she can see the reality of her choice. She may love it and then I will see that she isn't the person I married anymore and so be it. I am not going to let this rule my life and my future ....I love her and would love to share my future with her but if she doesn't want to then I won't be sitting around moping about it. She has told me how she feels and she knows how I feel. I am able to get on with life with or without her and won't lose my integrity over it. I'm a patient rock - I've done lots of work on myself and I like it. I'm here living life - she needs to either take some time and slow down in her decision to run away or she needs to just run away. I'll be here loving life with my beautiful children.
This is inspiring. Keep it up. What is your limit?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
