Acceptance?? Why do i accept my situation and i do not accept my brother' s?? He got married to OW4 one month prior to his death. He told my BIL and one of his son that this wedding was a crazy wedding to ensure OW4 would get the widdow pension .( which she did not get cause the marriage was too short and my brother was terminally heal.) At his funeral, his older son had a chronique panick attack and we had to call the ambulance. While attending to him, my son comes to me angered and tells me the priest asked OW4 if she wanted to delay the ceremony for a few minutes until the ambulance was gone and everyone else would be present?? SHE SAID NO!!!! my brother' s 2 son missed their FATHER'S funeral.. My brother' s SUV was to be given to his Son2. Did not happen.. she has both vehicule. Last Christmas, who attended the family reunion? You guessed it.. Ow4..
Last summer, My niece got married.. who attended without invitation? Yup.. OW4.. both nephew did not show up . This year, i hear my nephew say: This woman has been " married to my father for a month and now, i am suppose to spend all my holydays and family gattering with her? Dad' s funeral and will are not completed cause we do not want to deal with her.. She annoys me and brother.. Bro is messed up when we approach the subject. He does not want to deal with this. Last night was our gattering... ONCE AGAIN, both nephews missing and OW4 present with her BOYFRIEND and daughter.. is it just me or is this f*cked up??? We left very early.. My son was really upset. He misses his cousins and it pisses him off that they have been put aside for her ..