Great update Lana. You are fine with him or without. Stay true to yourself and take care of your Daughters. Standing or not Standing, YOU have a life to live and wonderful children by your side. You created them, they are a gift, a blessing! To me,my children were ALL THAT MATTER !! I worked very hard to break the cycle of a " hard " childhood so that my children, hopefully, won' t go through a crisis of their own as adult. I pray to God that I succeeded.. Have a wonderful holyday season Lana.. xo