Hanging and hoping- seperation edition

[Bman72]

Thanks for the advice Billy - I really appreciate the reality check. That had crossed my mind in the past as I have read this a few times that she has to take her journey irrelevant of what I say or do - but deep down I have been living in hope ( denial ) that she won't go through with it. I have been thinking over and over about when to bring up the logistics of her moving out but think I will let her bring it up once she sets a solid date to leave. It has been 6 months this week that she BD me and she said she will plan to leave mid next year. She just got a new job so I think it won't be too long till she starts to look for a new place to move in to. I will use my new time to myself for my own gain but I have to address the financial arrangements because if we still share finances ( 90 percent earned by me ) then I will be meeting weekly to discuss budgets and having to answer to her every dollar I spend - highly unacceptable for my future I think. It will be a source of conflict because it will be a first time that I will be stating what I believe is acceptable for me. I want to leave the door open but can't be left like this and then have to stay attached at the wallet. Any ideas on whether I just let her do what she wants for 6 - 12 months then bring it up or just do it sooner when she announces she is leaving ??? Suggestions appreciated :-/