I don't feel used, more that it doesn't feel quite right with the current situation. I also think it adds to her cake and eating it situation, in that our R is still rolling along, even if it's in this rut.
The other side is that I like it, it helps me feel closer, and gives me hope that we will sort things out.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
