Hi Cil, I'm always struck by how well you and XH seem to get along. That's a good thing as long as you can accept that he may not have much to offer just now. And I do think you accept that and are feeling pretty good within yourself.

I always think the best measure is whether you can have these interactions and then let them go. You seem to do that, after a little reflection - which is all good I think.

I find your updates really positive and am pleased you are doing so well.

Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus