Albac - 7 months in. Life goes on.

[albac]

Well I don't really know where to start.

I am back after taking some time away from the forum.

I thought i would share where my journey has ended for all those who wondered what happened to the people that just disappear from
This forum.

I'll try to break my situation down quickly for those that don't remember me.

My W and I separated in early February, by May she was in a relationship with another man and now fast forward to December she is pregnant to the new guy.

I was like most of you when I first found this forum. Angry,scared,hurt, felt like my heart had been ripped out. Basically I felt as bad as I ever have in my life and felt that it couldn't get any worse. Over the course of the next 8 or so months it really did get worse, but each time I got knocked to the ground it made me stronger.

Anyway the point is that now 10 months in I am no longer feeling like a victim. I am the best version of myself that I have ever been, I feel confident and as much as I love my wife even after all the things she has done to me I understand that she does not care for me and I have moved on. I still speak with her and it doesn't effect me because I can finally see that I am better off without her.

So to all those hurting and feeling like they have lost everything, stay strong hold on tight and it does get better! You will be stronger and you will recover!

I hope everyone finds the peace they are searching for.