I filed - Anxious to get it over

[fightin]

Thanks for the support, everyone.

V, you're absolutely right about the stuff. I just let it perplex me for a bit, especially that she gave me some of her own stuff, but no point in trying to sort out the "why" of it.

It got nasty last night. I had not purged everyone tied to her from my Facebook page and someone told her I was trash talking her on my page so she text me to tell me all about it. That is absolutely not true at all. I haven't said one thing about her other than that we split up and I didn't give any details and even wished her well. I definitely haven't said anything mean or spiteful. She of course didn't believe me so I just told her believe what she wishes. When she persisted in being hateful I ended up telling her to lose my number to which she then informed she did me a favor by coming clean about her affair and no longer wasting my life and that she was very upfront with me about all of this and that she really wished there wasn't so much bad blood between us. I did not respond to that.

While I agree she "did me a favor" I had to just about twist her arm to get her to confess to the affair so it wasn't like she was so very upfront like she wished to believe, but you can't reason with someone in that state so I just chose to no longer engage. Aside from that, I think that is a horrible thing to say to someone, that you did them a favor as if you're the hero for finally being honest.

I assume I will receive many more ugly texts in the future, especially once the custody suit hits her. I will probably just end up blocking her number. There is no reason for me to engage and I still often do when acting on my emotions.