Help - boundaries. Am I doing th ewrong thing?

[Gordie]

I don't have this at all... yesterday I worked from home, no arguments, everything ok, just felt like a backwards step, considering WW is still wayward. I even caved and we ended up ML when she asked.

Today things praying on my mind, ended up having words as I think she is still messaging OM on her phone in the house. I don't know how to distance myself.

I'm confusing myself with what to do next.

Is ML still a positive or do you feel used? I still ML to my W too despite our issues.