i'm blowing off our company party tonight... don't want to drive 3 hours round trip in sleet ... so i'm in bed in my winnie the pooh and piglet jammies eating pastina soup at 6:45! I completely relate to what you're saying.

Here's another whammy: my IC recently said that there's a school of thought that says it takes 1/2 the length of the relationship to be healed of the break up ... for me that's 13 years!!!!!!

13!!

I'd be 63!

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver