Help - boundaries. Am I doing th ewrong thing?

[Woke_Up]

So, WW is still contacting EAP from within the home.

Although I only know this for certain because I chances a look at her phone. So much for not snooping.It just confirmed what I already knew in my mind. I said to her that she was still disrespecting me, the family and the family home, but she didn't respond. She just tried to be nice to me still. I realised I had slipped and tried to detach and be positive/happy appearance after that.

Anyway, back in the MBR tonight and this time I intend to hang on in there.

I've read most of DR now, well chapters 1-7 and ch 10 on infidelity. I know I am not drawing back enough, everything is so intertwined, it's still like we are in R as usual, I need to be firmer in my stances. My lack of conviction/commitment to a course of action or my worry about WW's reactions is turning me into an unwilling participant in this scenario.