Re: She moved out...now the work begins...Part 3

[SBJ]

Thank you Rose, Job, and Cali...I'm not so harsh like they are in the Godfather where they say someone is dead to them or the family, but I will not share her with anyone.

CaliGuy I like how you said that. It is very matter of fact. They have to realize that we want them in our lives, but only if the MR can continue. I am no Plan B and I'm not her gay BFF. (Not trying to sound homophobic, but she has said how she has always gotten along well with gay men. She'd say because they had no ulterior motives.)

I also agree that she has this notion that we will remain close friends...based on some friends of our who have done it. Their case was a WW who left the husband and then tried to work it out. The husband didn't want to reconcile and now they are friends and co parent well. I do not want or desire another friend.