Your H hanging on to past GF's....and keepsakes hanging out, is just plain creepy to me. Yes, it is absolutely disrespectful to his W! And the way he talked to you about all his GF's, is inappropriate.
IMHO, when he did not respond to your terms of no more contacting his ex......that was your answer. You cannot trust him. Trust has to be earned by the cheater. You can't just decide you will trust a liar. He has to prove himself. This man is not right. He has toi many secrets and hidden agendas. If you were my daughter, I would tell you to get as far away from him as possible.
You deserve a man of integrity. One who will cherish his W enough to be honest and transparent........and who has no other woman kept standing in the shadows.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
