Re: She moved out...now the work begins...Part 3

[SBJ]

Ok guys I need some advice. The W came by to discuss bills and Christmas arrangements this morning. Very cordial visit. I helped her carry some things out to her car and she says..."Thank you for being so nice and making things so easy and friendly around the kids." I was kind of floored. I have always been nice and friendly. I have never been one to raise my voice. I just answered with...you know how I feel about what's going on and I'm not one to be mean and cruel. I also told her that I cannot just turn off my feelings. She said that she cannot either. I answered with...you've done a good job so far with turning them off. Her only response was that she was just trying to thank me. I got pulled into another talk and said too much.

How do I tell her that we won't be friends...I will be cordial, but I can never be just friends with her. She wants to put me in that FZ and I am not that guy. I refuse to be that guy. Need help please.