When I got more than double the initial offer from the insurance company on the damage to our house, stbxh said, "great job sweetheart" for the first time in months ...

and that was the LAST time also.

there are occasional xo's in text and email ... what's bizarre is when he refers to me in email by my formal full name, not my nickname. And he's now shortened his name rather than his full name, which he's always gone by. It's like we were full name H and nickname W when we were married but now nickname h is now divorcing full name wife.

They are just so freaking odd.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver