That's me in the spotlight

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This is interesting. I often called H by his initial and he lengthen my name into a pet name. After BD, he continued to use the pet name the whole time apart from a couple of emails where he used my normal name. He would always sign off with his initial.

For me, the name things were part of our R and once we were well on the way to D, I started using normal names again. For me, if someone betrays me in that way and runs off with OW, I'm not willing to sign on and off with endearments and pretend things are okay. I switched over to 'just business.' However, I am D'd, which is a place many won't want to be!!

:-) x