Hey Pit, I have copied the link to my story. Glean from it what helps you. I have not read it for a while, now. It still hurts to think of that dark place I placed myself. It is very embarrassing, frankly.

If I had to narrow it down to the two people who helped me the most, it would be AmyC and imlyn. They no longer post, and I miss them greatly.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...410#Post1116410

Btw, my M was saved.......in case I forgot to tell you.
smile



Edit - here is a list of all of her threads
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=userposts&view=started&id=16397
Cadet



Last edited by Cadet; 12/17/16 06:19 AM.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!