Hi Bippy, I don't have any conversations with her, she sends me texts telling me this stuff that I just ignore. Last night was the first one she got me on in ages. D4 was ill last week and W sent me texts about it, I opened the door a crack by checking a couple of times how D4 was and I guess W thought I was opening the door to more communication. I keep everything about the kids as much as I can and very limited at best. Any conversation with her is still all about her and blaming me for whatever she can find... I have normally just walked away or ignored it, has been a tiring frustrating couple of weeks at work and unfortunately she got me.
That's the thing, I just don't see someone attractive or desirable in her. I have been out and had interest from others but it's true what they say, I need time alone, I just wouldn't have the energy to begin something else.
I agree to that what I have taken from the board is the growth I've been through this year, how it will put me in a better place going forward.