I have told many people that DBing seems to be less about divorce busting, and more about becoming awesome. It is both a good side affect and a sad thing that, as you heal and grow, your WAS starts to look a little less attractive and desirable.
That, my friend, is the sound of your self worth growing...
Why are you having these conversations? XW used to do that to me too, and I just said, "Hey, if you need to talk about something with the kids, that's fine - but perhaps some of your girlfriends would want to chat with you otherwise? I don't feel comfortable."
