BillyHo,

Thanks for sharing your story. I've been taking the kids to church without my W too and it is hard but it's good that you are persevering.

My W also acts like everything is normal most days, even though she wants to D in January. I have no advice other than to take care of yourself and stop trying to figure out what your W is doing or thinking. I spend hours and hours doing that to no one's benefit!


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving