Originally Posted By: bsb
I'm sorry you are here! Like you I have been married less than a year. Just a little over 6 months. So I understand the shock of how this can be happening so soon in the marriage.


bsb- Yes, definitely. I am sorry you are going through hard times as well. I will read your threads and get to know your story.

Originally Posted By: bsb
Several have given great advice. I'm not sure if it's hopeless. Only you can decide if it's worth fighting for. My advice is to take a step back and take some time. I'm still new here but I can tell you my feelings about the whole situation has changed with time. You will start thinking with less emotion as time goes on and then you will know what you truly want.


This is great advice. For a while I felt guilty about moving out- it took me weeks. Slowly packing, staying with my mom, then moving- that whole time he didn't try to stop me.

Time is definitely helping. The distance is giving me more and more clarity. Focusing on my well-being is helpful. I married this man and moved to a different state. I have no friends here and that must change. I have to start getting out there. I am glad to hear you are moving in a positive direction. I wish you much luck.

Thank you for your words.